Life really is pulling in a variety of directions now. You do need to keep a sense of yourself in order to not spread yourself to thin. On the one hand, variety is the spice of life. While on the other, you need to stick to your guns about your personal priorities. The second option is the one to go for. When you know what is important to you, all the other choices actually become very easy to make.
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